THE MINDSETS THAT DETERMINE YOUR LIFE
CHANGE THESE AND YOU CAN PROPEL LIFE FORWARD... MORE ENJOYABLY
A "mind set" is a way of thinking that leads you to do what is right and beneficial or the opposite. It sets up what you do in situations and in life.
IT IS BUILT, NOT IMPOSED OR MAGICALLY PRESENT
However, you cannot magically invent and impose it into your brain.
They are builit one piece at a time, most often by correcting wrong beliefs (those that don't work) and installing the new version into oneself such that it becomes automatic and effortless and super effective! (We use the same process as e use with any correcting and upgrading of beliefs. See here.)
Be sure to know that you must believe all the supporting beliefs behind a mindset before you can have the mindset, so it is the beliefs you will correct, change, and install - and then you will have the mindset to serve you forever! (The benefit is huge, huge, and huge, for so relatively small an amount of time upgront. It is interesting to note that you gain benefits in the development stage, as you go things get better and soon the payoff exceeds the cost in terms of time and effort!)
MINDSETS ARE THE "PATH TO"
Success is always determined by persistence (effort, pushing through), the willingness to fail and to put forth effort to create what one wants.
The wrong mindset, such as the fixed mind-set, can be crippling and even overcome one's innate abilities that should cause one to succeed.
Indeed, read the conclusions of the studies related in Carol Dweck's book Mindset: The New Psychology Of Success. Read it if you have talent but somehow find yourself not succeeding as you think you should!
CHANGE THESE AND YOU WILL TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE AND YOUR VERY BEING!
These top 3 are the creators underlying the attainment of the others:
The Fixed Mindset Versus The Growth/Learning Mindset - The Defensive What's Wrong With Me Versus The What Do I Need To Learn, And Do, Now Approach - Self-criticism, loss of confidence, dependence on approval, not "being good enough", somewhat victimish, easily discouraged, stopping short of results - all are one side, the one that leads to less success and a much harder life. We must "break the back" of the core beliefs under the fixed mindset or there will be no real gains. (See also The Grand Illusion Of "Creativity", "Getting Approval", Versus Getting The Outcomes You Truly Want In Life.) The 100% Responsibility Mindset - Without this, there is little progress, as one's world is more dependent on others and on circumstances, instead of being At Cause In The Matter Of Life. Having this mindset at that level will guarantee your success. It is the essential ingredient between getting from where one is to where one is committed to being.
Get these in place, for you will not do well in other things if you do not!
The fundamental foundation is set through this
Then create these to magnify and multiply your life!
The Busy Mindset Versus The Value Mindset - I am busy and important versus I am internally directed by what I value and I will only settle for that. These are quite correlated with the fixed mindset versus the growth mindset. A busy person is often externally directed, and, accordingly, controlled by the outside forces, and not living in the responsibility mindset.