TRANSITION FROM THE LIFE BEFORE TO THE LIFE AFTER
FROM A NOT SO GREAT LIFE TO A GREAT LIFE!

Completed as is, will be linked to the longer version soon.

COME OVER TO "THE OTHER SIDE"

In-Charge.  Confident.  Happy.

"Look, see, correct quickly."

Solid foundation (& knows how things work, decided & definite; "in order").

Circle what is true for you in the following shortened version (or do the full version below that).  Consider posting this in a place you can see it everyday and/or putting it in your daily reading from your Reminders Notebook. 











































I recommend using the longer version in the following document, which includes the shorter version also:  The Complete Version: Life Before, Life After page.  Use it daily and then weekly, doing at least one item daily in the transition column.

Note that the links in the chart are like a reading sequence and will cover most of the spectrum of life.

The transition occurs via The Only Sure Path To The Greatest Life.  Follow it and I guarantee you that you will build a life where you are very happy and very life effective!




  BEFORE
Keeps what was given

Come from:

I, The Pleaser

Anxious, at the "effect of"
Worn down, depleted
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Beliefs:

DependentPowerless - Others in control of them


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Life is:

Random.  Not orderlyNot definite, unclear. Put off (later)

Distracted (lots of concerns)

Not self controlled.  No limits set.  Not focused

Full of:  Stress, pressure.   AnxietyGuilt.   Fear.

Lots of problems. Putting out constant "fires".
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Most highly valued

ApprovalObligations. Protection of self, defense.




TRANSITION
Take the time for The Build!






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Examine beliefs, install corrected ones.

Build solid foundation 
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SystematizePut in order. Define, clarify.

Learn how things work in life.

Certaintize.  See/clarify/change beliefs of "danger"






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Learn what is "of value" in life; how life and humans function; gain reality vs. false beliefs of (false) values


AFTER
Create a great life


I, The Generator

CalmPacedIn charge.
Well-rested in good shape

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100% responsibility

Self sufficientConfident.

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Life is orchestrated by self!

Directed, defined, made clear

Free of distractions, plenty of attention and awareness in the present

The Person Living Life As It Should Be Lived

Systems prevent problems!

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Emotional well-being

Creating life value (which includes but is not improperly dominated by "contributing")


The Transition From Life Before To Life After The Transition - The Complete Version