THE KEY DECISIONS TO MAKE IN LIFE
DO THESE RIGHT AND YOU'LL HAVE A GREAT LIFE!
What else could be true but the above? Therefore, I recommend you follow this path.
Do these, one at a time. Even if you're not yet complete in the learning part of it, make at least a decision for now, scheduling it into your calendar system for going to the next level. Check them off as you've tied them down, reading at least enough introductory material to make a good decision. Put this, or some list you've decided on, behind your tab in your Reminders Notebook entitled "Decisions" - read it every day for a month and then weekly. To see how to fit all this into your life, see How To Find The Time For Life Improvement
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MY DECISIONS FOR MY LIFE
weak-chooser/victim. (I seriously choose and commit to a level of __
on this side of the spectrum: ____________________.
Rate on a 1-10, 10 being highest.)
__ To have strong, definitive standards for living your life - and not tolerate or acquiesce to anything less
__ To live a "no fault" life, generating no "right/wrong" criticism.
__ To solve problems quickly and completely without delay
__ To operate off of feedback (diligently sought and used), based on facts and rigorous thinking). (Be a "life champion".)
THE MEASURE TWICE, CUT ONCE DECISIONS
You must measure these very thoroughly and not rely on primitive impulse or lower level thinking (or non-thinking!). These each determine a huge part of life, so it is essential that there is a rigorous process applied!!!
__ How you will spend your time
__ Your schedule, routines set in place - A system set up to determine how you
invest your time
OVERALL CAPABILITY
__ To develop "life skills" - to invest in learning these, leading to an expansion of life and happiness ongoingly
__ To use only "what works" as the criterion, not squishy "right/wrong"
__ How to plan (choreograph your life over the long term and the short term!)
DO THIS
it, learn and checklist it for use when to use the higher brain, install "The Pause"
principle
INSTALL SUPPORT
__ To have these supports installed in life
__ The right people (supportive, positive emotional impact, inspire toward the
healthy and fulfilling) - Accept no others!!!
important areas of life.
__ Use resources to leverage one's efforts, be more effective in life
__ Learn how to identify, access, and use resources.
__ Commit to using only the truly highly useful ones, forget low return or "need
help" resources. Don't tolerate less!!!
__ Install the systems, practices, habits, routines that support my living a good, emotionally successful life. (In the process, one identifies which of these need to be changed, of course!)
