THE POWERFULNESS VIEWPOINT
THE MUST, IF YOU ARE TO BE A POWERFUL PERSON IN LIFE


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AS A CHILD, YOU WERE POWERLESS AND NEEDED TO DEPEND ON THE POWERFUL PEOPLE TO LOVE YOU AND FEED YOU.

THE TRUTH NOW IS THAT YOU ARE INDISPUTABLY POWERFUL.

YOU CAN CREATE AN INCREDIBLE AMOUNT OF GOOD IN YOUR LIFE.

THERE IS NO VALIDITY IN SAYING:  “WELL, COMPARED TO ….., I AM….” 

YOU SIMPLY ARE OR ARE NOT POWERFUL.

A NUMBER OF PEOPLE ALREADY THINK THEY ARE  POWERFUL, BUT YOU SEE THEM DOING THE FOLLOWING INDICATORS  OF UNDERLYING BELIEFS OF POWERLESSNESS:

__ COMPLAINING   __ GETTING ANGRY  __ BLAMING  __ GOSSIPING
__ LYING IN ORDER TO GET SOMETHING   __ MAKING OTHERS WRONG
__  BEING STUCK IN “BEING RIGHT”    __ USING FORCE 
__ TELLING STORIES WHERE YOU ARE THE VICTIM

__ I KNOW THAT I AM POWERFUL AND THAT IS IT, PERIOD, END OF STORY!

     __ I NEED NOT ENGAGE IN ANY CONVERSATION OR ACTION
          INDICATING POWERLESSNESS.
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ADDED DISCUSSION

We basically are no longer powerless and dependent, but we, to some degree, hold on to maintaining our child persona (or "mindset").

But the truth is that any normal adult person already has enough "power" (capability of gaining something) to learn how to be more powerful - to essentially build powerfulness.

The test of you being powerful (or less than powerful) can be determined by seeing if you do ANY of the behaviors that indicate one has beliefs that one has low power or powerlessness.  To be truly powerful, you must not engage in any of those behaviors. None of them!  Zero!  Powerfulness is like pregnancy, you either are or you aren't! 

You must follow a selected path to powerfulness and then follow it until you are powerful - before doing anything else!   I suggest the path in the book "Smart (and easy) Self Control" (when it comes out on Amazon, see Books on this site to see if it is published and to link to it) and/or follow The Program For Developing Your Power - The Good Kind! For A Better Life!


Source from

This is pulled, and modified, from the "powerpoint" summary of life:  The Basics Of Life, Part II.

Reference

The core reference page related to power is:

Power In Life, Links, Contents

Specific related pieces

A Sense Of Control Vs. Learned Helplessness - The Great Loss That Creates Depression And Low Self-Esteem